Free marriage tips for couples: 10 things you must do in your marriage

Free Marriage tips for couples.

Marriage is beautiful when the love is still intact. A happy marriage where unity and love exist tends to last longer with the possibilities of having the best kids in the word.

In our article today, we will be unveiling free marriage tips that will make you enjoy your new Union.

 

1. Finance (Huge Money )

Trust me, its is hard to talk about money. This is definitely a topic that people go to all sorts of means to avoid talking about. But how can you merge two people financials into one without talking about it? You need to know what are each others debts and assets. You will want to decide if you keep finances mostly separate or if you share one bank account and credit cards. How much are you each comfortable spending and/or saving? What is it okay or not okay to spend money on? Who will pay the bills? Is one of you more frugal than the other? Will you dine out in pricey restaurants and take fancy vacations? Save for retirement? You can see already what a complex issue this is. That is precisely why it needs to be addressed

2. Great bed service.

As news couples you will perhaps argue that it’s hard to imagine that there will ever be a time when s*x and intim+cy are actually a problem. Right now, you are both on the same page, and there is no lack of intimacy. But fast forward into busy lives of careers and kids, housework and exhaustion, and you’ve got a whole different scenario on your hands.

One partner might be overwhelmed and exhausted and the other wants more sex and intimacy than their partner can give. The passion and chemistry you once had changes into a different stage of the relationship, and carving out the time and wish for s*x becomes a challenge.

Resentment can build, and lack of intimacy can give to infidelity. If you don’t want that happen, then you must talk about s*x. Talk about your needs and desires, your feelings of closeness of distance, even what you like and want in the bedroom. Couples that communicate about s#x enjoy more satisfying relationships.

3. Raising children

While raising kids, there is much to discuss when it comes to building strong bond. Most required , you will need to decide if you plan to have children. How many children do you want? Often, one partner wants just one or two kids, but the other wants a bigger family. Sometimes, one partner doesn’t want kids at all. You’d be amazed how often this issue comes with couples in my office. Discuss this ahead of time!
How will you raise your children? Bottles of breast-fed? Nannies? Who will do the bulk of the parenting? Will one of you stay home or will you both work? How will you divide the responsibilities? Public school or private school? What about religion? Where will you raise them? In a big city, or do you plan to move somewhere else? All of these things needs to be addressed .

4. Building Career

One added value you must plant in your home is to communicate about career paths and plans in a marriage. Will both of you continue to work full-time even if you have children? Does one of you put in much more hours than the other? What about traveling for work, leaving the partner alone with the children? How will these decisions impact your family financially? If one partner makes more money than the other, how will you handle that in the marriage? Again, these things impact entire families and so need to be communicated about. Of course, things don’t always go as planned, and you need to communicate in an ongoing way, but many things about career goals and plan should be discussed as early as possible. Too often, couples have different ideas of how career will evolve in their family, and one partner feels blindsided because they had a diverse plan and this was never discussed.

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5. Religious Beliefs

Sometimes even if you marry someone with the same religious background as you, what role will religion play in your family? Will you go to church or synagogue every week, or just on special holidays, or not at all? Will religion and prayer be part of your daily lives inside the home? Will your children go to religious school or take part in religious ceremonies?
This is even more complicated if you are of two different backgrounds. Which religion, if any, will you raise children? Do you plan to expose them to both? How will you do that, and how will you answer tough questions as they get older? Talk about this and figure it out. The wait and see approach does not work.

 

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6. Labour apportioning

Well though it may seem common to you, based on your own values and beliefs, not everyone sees eye to eye on this one. Will you follow more traditional male/female roles within the marriage? Are you more progressive and feel that the labor should be equally divided? How do your career choices affect the division of labor? If you’re both working full-time, does Mom still take care of the kids and cook and clean? If Mom stays home, does Dad help at all? Again, these are the types of difficult conversations you need to have. Sometimes, partners have such diabolically opposite views of how this should look, and they never took the time to talk about it before it became a problem.

7. People visiting

Do you have any preferred rules and boundaries about in-laws and other visitors. Can they come and spend as much time as wanted? Can they stay indefinitely? Is there a certain amount of time you feel is proper, but then more than that makes you uncomfortable? This can be complicated even more if you don’t like your in-laws, or if you think your partner has an unhealthy relationship with his or her own parents. Personally, when I was first married, we had a 3 day rule. Nobody  should stay with us in our home more than 3 days, regardless of who it was. I was hesitant, but in reality, it proved to work very well and saved us from a lot of potential conflict with each other and our families. Talk about it and figure out what works for you.

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8. Institution

Indeed, you probably have a lot of options when it comes to a learning area or school . It could be Public school, private school, online school, home school. You can live in a big city with overcrowded schools or choose to live elsewhere for better schools or less crowded schools. What matters most to you? Don’t wait to discuss this until you child is 5 years old or you will have a problem on your hands! Talk about your ideas long before you even have children.

9. A place to call home
So do you plan to move elsewhere for a certain school? Do you want to live in a big city or a smaller town? Do you plan to own a home or rent? Big house or smaller house or apartment? This one really does often become an argument. I remember wanting to buy a small starter house, while my husband wanted to continue to rent. Make sure you’re on the same page with your plans moving forward. Forcing someone to do something they’re not comfortable with only harbors resentment.

10. Going on vacation
If I may ask, How many times do you go on vacations? Or what and where will you go on vacations? Will you bring the children? Who will babysit if you don’t? How long will you go away for? How much money will you spend on vacations? What if one likes fancy hotels and one likes to go camping? Will you relax on a beach somewhere, or do more adventurous things? Maybe some of both? Talk about it, and figure out what works for you. By all means, don’t fight about vacation that sort of ruins it.

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The happiness of every home is built with trust and understanding and these tips listed above

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